Is today a hard day for you? (Father's Day)

With today being Father's Day I can't help but think of some of my friends who are hurting today. Are you struggling with this day? I know some of you have lost your Father this year and you are grieving over your loss. I can't imagine your pain right now. I once almost lost my Dad (amazing story) he went into a coma & wasn't suppose to make it but somehow he did. My crazy family even had a funeral for him. I hung in there hoping for a miracle and God gave us one. He is still with us today, WOW! But sometimes miracles don't happen. :( This year my Uncle Bill had a stroke and he didn't make it. We were not ready for his departure at all! Very hard times. RIP Uncle Bill we love you and miss you!
Maybe your Dad wasn't there for you. Maybe your Dad abused you and you have a broken relationship with him. Some never had the chance to even meet their real Dad. My heart breaks for the Fatherless! This was never Gods plan. I know what it is like to grow up with out a Daddy. Its heartbreaking and shapes your whole life. But through counseling & a great God I am healed from the past pain and you could be too. It takes time. Time really does heal wounds. So as today moves on know that there is a sister out there with your heart in her mind and prayers covering you and hoping for a better day tomorrow. You are not alone or forgotten in your pain and This too shall pass!! Much love and healing to your heart and soul. Adieu.

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Do you have a good relationship with yourself?

I saw this headline today and it brought back a flood of memories. I remember the days I didn't like myself or even want to be in the same room with myself. Pretty hard to get away from yourself,right? So I was forced to start working on my relationship with no other than, myself. I know it sounds funny but if you felt the way I did then, they'll you'll get it. You first have to learn to love yourself and think positive thoughts about yourself. Retrain your brain and your thought process. Most likely you don't like yourself due to the fact that someone put these ideas in your head from the beginning. Like your not pretty enough, smart enough or why do you always do dumb things,etc.. Ask yourself what are the tapes playing in your head that planted this self-hatred. Most likely it came from a family member or a boyfriend or spouse. Whoever it was or is. You are going to have to fight against each word brought against you. Think of it as a battle that you need to win. A battle to renew your mind, then your relationship with yourself with begin to heal. Soon you'll be on your way to being ok that your the only one in the room. Maybe go grab a coffee or a movie on your own. I have a friend of mine that thinks it's weird that I like going to movies by myself. I told her hey I don't mind being alone. She replied, I could never do that! Believe me I know why. I love doing things with my girlfriends but when there are times I am alone, I'm ok with it. So ask yourself do you have a good relationship with yourself? If the answer is no or I could improve, find out why. Talk with a counselor or a friend or just start by working on your thoughts. It's a process and it takes time. You didn't get this way over night so give it some time but be aware of what is being said to you and how you process it. And if any old tapes are playing without you even realizing it. Then take those thoughts captive and regain your love for yourself. You can do it! Here's to loving yourself! Adieu. Lisa

Are you rushing into things?

Are you rushing into things?
I was making my son some eggs for breakfast this morning and was in a bit of a hurry so I decide to flip to eggs over before they were ready. I knew they weren't ready but thought well I'll try to do it and see what happens. Well you know what came next, right? A mess, the eggs fell apart and were no longer the eggs I set out to make. Funny thing is the same goes for decisions we make in life? We rush things, make decision's without thinking them through making a mess of life. So ask yourself today am I rushing anything in my life? Do I need some time to think things through. Most the time in cooking when you simmer food or put them in the crock pot for hours they turn out tastier, more tender and all around a better meal. Why rush, simmer down and settle into the big decision's in life. They'll turn out sweeter, juicier and all around a better decision. I encourage you to take your time, think things through and pray about what you should do. Here's to taking your time today! Adieu. Lisa

Restoring Humanity though Beauty
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Butterflies

THERE WOULD BE NO BUTTERFLIES WITHOUT CHANGE!
Embrace CHANGE! Even though it may hurt and it my feel like your turning into something new. CHANGE is how we grow, how we learn. Wisdom comes from CHANGE. Look for the positive in the CHANGE your going through and it won't seem so tough. I just love when I see Butterflies I know they didn't get that beautiful without some serious CHANGE, dying to what they once were and thinking it was all over then they emerge a new creation. And I love that they only live for a few days so every time I see one I know they are special and they serve a specific purpose. So come embrace CHANGE with me and enjoy the journey. Love, Lisa

Restoring Humanity Through Beauty
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My First Radio Interview

I recently had the opportunity to share my story on toginetradio LIVE, it was so exciting. Mending the Soul is a great org that you can look into for some extra help in healing your mind and emotions. I was asked to share how I came to the healing place I am at and I shared a tid bit of that. Blessings to you and Merry Christmas.

Please listen to my story on itunes. It was live on the radio yesterday. Click on the itunes link on the right hand side that says Mending the Soul. I am on about 20:29 or you can listen to the whole show. Its a good one! http://toginet.com/shows/girlfriendit


Lisa Schumacher

Giving Back to Human Trafficking Victims

Yesterday I had the opportunity to give funds through Lily & Co. to an org. that I have been wanting to be part of for awhile. Hookers For Jesus. I know the name throws you off a bit but believe me I have met the founder and she is all about rehabilitating these women from the modern day slavery that is existing right now as I write this. We will be able to help this young girl see her family that she hasn't seen in 3 years including her 2 little boys. If you want to know more go to www.hookersforjesus.net and read about it. And last week we gave funds to abolishslavery.org Aaron Cohen is a remarkable man who is on the front lines of human trafficking,if you get time visit his website and see some of his take downs in his videos. This man is beyond brave. The money we invested in his org will help on his next trip to Haiti I believe to rescue more slaves. I am all about giving especially when I know exactly where the money is going! So I am hoping that my company Lily & Co. grows tremendously so we can abolish slavery!!! Literally!!! If you know anyone who is interested in Human Trafficking please let them know about our fight through the sales of one skin care company. Adieu. Lisa

Can you find your humanity once it is lost?

I saw this movie last night about human trafficking and have to say there was this one scene that was so moving. Anyone who has been in bondage can relate to this. Just remember there is always hope and with God all things are possible. Emotional healing can come but it does take work and time.
Here's what the girl who was in trafficking asked after she was rescued.
Do you think it is possible when you lost your humanity to find it again?
Her friend answered Yes but its yours to find! No one can take it away from you, not one man nor a hundred!
Oh man is this true when you have been made to do something against your will and treated less than a dog or worse, you began to believe you are worth nothing. Over time with counseling & prayer you can regain your humanity and believe in yourself again!